Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from different time zones.
When you’re in a cross-border relationship, especially with immigration challenges, everything gets more complicated. Visa issues, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel overwhelming.
We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just kept falling through.
Then we found out we could say “I do” over Zoom — for real.
At first, we thought it was some kind of loophole. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah offer fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re 100% valid.
We decided to go for it.
Here’s how it worked for us:
- We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
- We scheduled our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
- We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
- And when the day came, we connected to the ceremony, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.
I said “I do” from my living room. My fiancé said it from their military base.
It was real. It was stress-free. And it was ours.
The officiant guided us through everything. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our official marriage certificate immediately — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.
Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle insurance updates, and every agency has accepted it — no more info issues at all.
If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is recognized, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.
We’re proof that marriage can happen anywhere — and that what matters most is the commitment.